How Is It? by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
The poem explores the theme of disillusionment and the fleeting nature of human connections. The speaker describes a romantic encounter that has lost its magic, with the lover's words now sounding hollow and insincere. The poem critiques societal expectations of relationships, suggesting that people often pretend to be something they're not in order to fit in.
By Ella Wheeler Wilcox · First published 1888 · Genre: Poetry, Inspirational, Religious · 419 words
First lines
_You who are loudly crying out for peace_, _You who are wanting love to vanquish hate_, _How is it in the four walls of your home_ _The while you wait_?
Do those who form your household welcome your approach in the morning As the earth welcomes the presence of dawn, Or do they dread your coming lest you censure and complain? Do you begin the day with praise to God for each blessing you possess, and do you speak frequent words of commendation to those about you? Do those you claim to love often hear you talking in love's language, Or is your softest tone and your sweetest speech saved for the sometime guest, While the harsh voice and the sharp retort are used with those you love the best?
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- Work type: Poem
- Author: Ella Wheeler Wilcox
- Date: 1888 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Poetry, Inspirational, Religious, Philosophical, Social Commentary
- Length: 419 words
- Structure: 1 section, 6 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Fairly Difficult (10th-12th Grade)
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Genres
- Poetry — The text is written in verse form with a rhythmic and lyrical quality.
- Inspirational — The themes focus on self-improvement, peace, and love.
- Religious — References to God, Christ, and angelic virtues are prevalent.
- Philosophical — The text explores deep questions about personal conduct and societal peace.
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Philosophy · Poetry · Spirituality · Inspirational · Motivational · Self-Help · Personal Growth · Mindfulness · Wellness · Optimism · Positive Thinking · Life Lessons