My Friend by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
The poem explores the theme of unrequited love and the pain it brings to the speaker. The speaker describes their friend as someone who has brought joy and beauty into their life, but also acknowledges that this person does not return their romantic feelings. Despite this, the speaker continues to cherish their friendship and finds comfort in the memories they've shared together.
By Ella Wheeler Wilcox · First published 1896 · Genre: Poetry, Philosophical, Inspirational · 189 words
First lines
When first I looked upon the face of Pain I shrank repelled, as one shrinks from a foe Who stands with dagger poised, as for a blow. I was in search of Pleasure and of Gain; I turned aside to let him pass: in vain; He looked straight in my eyes and would not go. "Shake hands," he said; "our paths are one, and so We must be comrades on the way, 'tis plain."
I felt the firm clasp of his hand on mine; Through all my veins it sent a strengthening glow. I straightway linked my arm in his, and lo! He led me forth to joys almost divine; With God's great truths enriched me in the end: And now I hold him as my dearest friend.
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- Work type: Poem
- Author: Ella Wheeler Wilcox
- Date: 1896 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Poetry, Philosophical, Inspirational, Reflective
- Length: 189 words
- Structure: 1 section, 2 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Very Easy (5th Grade or below)
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Genres
- Poetry — The work is structured in verse and employs poetic devices such as rhyme and meter.
- Philosophical — The themes explore deep existential concepts such as pain, pleasure, and the nature of human experience.
- Inspirational — The narrative conveys a message of finding strength and enlightenment through adversity.
- Reflective — The tone and content encourage introspection and personal growth.
Tags
Friendship · Poetry · Love · Relationships · Emotions · Personal Growth · Self-Discovery · Inspiration · Motivation · Uplifting · Heartwarming · Sentimental