To Marry or Not to Marry? a Girl's Reverie
The poem explores the inner turmoil of a young woman contemplating marriage. She weighs the pros and cons, considering the potential joys of companionship and the loss of personal freedom. The speaker's thoughts oscillate between the desire for love and independence, revealing her anxiety about making a decision that will impact her life forever.
By Ella Wheeler Wilcox · First published 1888 · Genre: Poetry, Romance, Drama · 265 words
First lines
Mother says, "Be in no hurry, Marriage oft means care and worry."
Auntie says, with manner grave, "Wife is synonym for slave."
Father asks, in tones commanding, "How does Bradstreet rate his standing?"
Sister crooning to her twins, Sighs, "With marriage care begins."
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To Marry or Not to Marry? a Girl's Reverie is listed on Textopian as a poem by Ella Wheeler Wilcox, dated 1888 CE.
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- Work type: Poem
- Author: Ella Wheeler Wilcox
- Date: 1888 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Poetry, Romance, Drama, Philosophical, Social Commentary
- Length: 265 words
- Structure: 1 section, 14 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Very Easy (5th Grade or below)
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Genres
- Poetry — The work is written in verse form, employing rhyme and meter.
- Romance — The central theme revolves around love and the contemplation of marriage.
- Drama — The narrative explores emotional and relational conflicts, particularly the protagonist's internal struggle and external advice.
- Philosophical — The text delves into existential questions about the nature of love, marriage, and life's purpose.
Tags
Romance · Poetry · Feminism · Marriage · Love · Relationships · Women's Rights · Independence · Self-Discovery · Personal Growth · Societal Pressure · Gender Roles