Abstaining from Anger
The work emphasizes the importance of controlling anger and the detrimental effects it has on individuals and their relationships. It asserts that true forbearance comes from the ability to retaliate, and those who lack such power cannot claim to truly forbear. Anger is depicted as a destructive force that leads to numerous negative consequences, including the loss of happiness and the deterioration of one's character. The text argues that anger should be avoided at all costs, as it not only harms the individual who harbors it but also affects their family and community. It likens nurturing anger to self-harm, suggesting that it ultimately leads to one's own downfall. The work encourages individuals to rise above their grievances, even in the face of provocation, and highlights the benefits of maintaining a calm demeanor. The narrative illustrates that overcoming anger can lead to the fulfillment of desires and a more peaceful existence. It contrasts the state of an angry person with that of a serene individual, suggesting that the latter embodies a higher moral standing akin to that of saints. The overarching message advocates for emotional restraint and the cultivation of inner peace as essential virtues for personal well-being and social harmony.
By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2004 · Genre: Philosophy, Self-help, Spirituality · 258 words
First lines
He alone can be said to forbear who hath the power to strike: as to him that hath not the power, what mattereth it whether he forbeareth or forbeareth not?
It is wrong to get angry even when thou art helpless to strike: and when thou hast the power, there is nothing that is worse than anger.
Whoever thy offender may be, forget thy anger: for from anger springeth a multitude of ills.
Anger killeth the smile and it destroyeth cheer: hath man a crueller foe than anger?
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- Work type: Essay
- Author: Thiruvalluvar
- Date: 2004 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Philosophy, Self-help, Spirituality, Ethics, Poetry
- Length: 258 words
- Structure: 1 section, 10 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)
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Genres
- Philosophy — The text explores the nature of anger and self-control, presenting philosophical reflections on human emotions and moral conduct.
- Self-help — The work provides practical advice on managing anger and its consequences, aiming to improve personal well-being.
- Spirituality — The themes of forbearance and inner peace align with spiritual teachings on overcoming negative emotions.
- Ethics — The text discusses moral implications of anger and the importance of restraint, fitting within ethical discourse.
Tags
Tamil Literature · Ethics · Moral Philosophy · Ancient Indian Texts · Spiritual Guidance · Self-Control · Anger Management · Emotional Intelligence · Personal Growth · Wisdom Literature · Indian Classics · Philosophical Treatises