Courteousness by Thiruvalluvar

Name: Courteousness
Author: Thiruvalluvar

The work emphasizes the importance of courteousness as a fundamental virtue that stems from kindness and good breeding. It asserts that true character is reflected not in physical appearance but in one's manners and interactions with others. Individuals who embody justice and a helpful nature are highly regarded, as their courteous behavior contributes to societal harmony. The text highlights that even jesting disparagement can cause pain, underscoring the necessity for well-bred individuals to maintain decorum, even towards adversaries. It posits that the presence of courteous individuals is essential for societal smoothness; without them, harmony would be lost. In contrast, those lacking good manners are compared to inanimate objects, suggesting that their sharp intellect or skills are rendered ineffective without courtesy. Discourtesy is portrayed as a flaw, regardless of the target's character, indicating that maintaining respect is crucial. The work also illustrates the bleakness of life for those who cannot express joy or kindness, suggesting that a lack of courtesy leads to a dark and unfulfilling existence. Furthermore, it compares the wealth of a rude person to spoiled milk, indicating that material possessions are worthless if not accompanied by good manners. Overall, the text advocates for the cultivation of courteousness as a means to enhance personal character and societal well-being, asserting that it is a vital quality that enriches both individual lives and the community at large.

By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2000 · Genre: Philosophy, Self-help, Ethics · 229 words

First lines

Courteousness, they say, cometh easily to those who receive all men with open arms.

Courteousness cometh of the combination of the two virtues of kindness and good-breeding.

Men are likened to each other not by the cut of their personal appearance, but by the similarity of their manners.

Behold the men who love justice and righteousness, and who are of a helpful disposition: the world setteth a high value on their manners.

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Work type: Essay
Author: Thiruvalluvar
Date: 2000 CE
Language: English
Genres: Philosophy, Self-help, Ethics, Poetry, Sociology
Length: 229 words
Structure: 1 section, 10 paragraphs
Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)

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Philosophy — The text explores the nature of courteousness, kindness, and good manners, reflecting on moral virtues.
Self-help — The work provides guidance on interpersonal behavior and the importance of courtesy in social interactions.
Ethics — It discusses ethical behavior and the impact of manners on society and personal relationships.
Poetry — The writing style employs poetic elements, making it a literary work that conveys its themes through verse.