The Losing of the Sense of a Dignified Reserve
The work explores the complexities of love and the emotional turmoil it brings, particularly from a woman's perspective. It delves into the conflict between modesty and the overpowering nature of love, illustrating how love can dismantle one's dignity and self-respect. The speaker reflects on the struggle to contain feelings of affection, which often erupt uncontrollably, likening it to a sneeze. The narrative reveals the vulnerability that accompanies love, where pride and decorum are easily cast aside in the face of longing. The speaker acknowledges the pain of unrequited love and the heartache of being abandoned, yet expresses a deep yearning to reconnect with the beloved. The tension between self-respect and the desire for reconciliation is palpable, as the speaker grapples with the pull of affection despite past grievances. The text emphasizes the transformative power of love, which can lead individuals to act against their better judgment. The imagery of a heart melting like fat in fire symbolizes the intensity of emotions that override rational thought. Ultimately, the work captures the essence of love's duality—its capacity to elevate and devastate, leaving individuals in a state of emotional conflict.
By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2004 · Genre: Poetry, Romance, Philosophical · 229 words
First lines
She
The door that is bolted with the bolt of modesty will yet yield to the axe of an overpowering love.
Heartless is this thing called Love: for it oppresseth my heart even in the dead of night.
I try indeed to shut my love up within my heart: but like a sneeze it breaketh out of itself without a warning.
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- Work type: Poem
- Author: Thiruvalluvar
- Date: 2004 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Poetry, Romance, Philosophical, Drama, Literary Fiction
- Length: 229 words
- Structure: 1 section, 11 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)
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Genres
- Poetry — The work employs poetic language and structure, focusing on emotional expression and metaphor.
- Romance — The central theme revolves around love, desire, and the complexities of romantic relationships.
- Philosophical — The text explores deeper themes of self-respect, dignity, and the nature of love, prompting reflection on human emotions.
- Drama — The emotional conflicts and interpersonal dynamics suggest elements typical of dramatic literature.
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Philosophical · Poetic · Tamil Literature · Ancient Indian Texts · Ethics · Morality · Dharma · Artha · Kama · Moksha · Virtue Ethics · Indian Philosophy