Friendship by Thiruvalluvar (2000)

Name: Friendship
Author: Thiruvalluvar

The work explores the profound nature of friendship, emphasizing its rarity and value. It begins by asserting that true friendship is one of the most challenging things to attain, serving as a protective shield against adversaries. The text contrasts the friendship of the virtuous with that of the foolish, likening the former to the waxing moon, which grows and shines brightly, while the latter diminishes over time. True friendship is depicted as a source of wisdom and enrichment, akin to the study of great literature, revealing deeper insights upon closer examination. The essence of friendship is not merely social enjoyment but involves mutual correction and guidance, encouraging individuals to improve themselves and avoid wrongdoing. The work stresses that physical proximity is not essential for a strong bond; rather, it is the emotional connection and shared values that fortify friendship. Genuine friendship is characterized by heartfelt affection, not superficial camaraderie. A true friend is one who steers you away from mistakes, supports you in difficult times, and stands by you through adversity. The imagery of a friend rushing to cover a companion in distress illustrates the urgency and loyalty inherent in true friendship. The text posits that the essence of friendship lies in the harmonious connection between two individuals, where both strive to uplift one another. Furthermore, it critiques transactional relationships that quantify love and affection, suggesting that such friendships lack depth and sincerity. The work ultimately presents friendship as a noble and essential aspect of life, advocating for connections that foster growth, support, and mutual respect.

By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2000 · Genre: Philosophical, Self-help, Poetry · 267 words

First lines

What is there in the world that is so difficult to acquire as friendship? and what other armour equalleth it as a defence against the machinations of foes?

Like unto the waxing of the moon is the friendship of the worthy: but the alliance of fools is like the waning thereof.

The friendship of the worthy is like the studying of great books: the more thou approachest them, the more charms thou wilt discover in them.

The object of friendship is not merrymaking: but the restraining and reproving of oneself when one goeth astray.

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Work type: Essay
Author: Thiruvalluvar
Date: 2000 CE
Language: English
Genres: Philosophical, Self-help, Poetry, Ethical, Sociological
Length: 267 words
Structure: 1 section, 10 paragraphs
Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)

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Philosophical — The text explores deep concepts of friendship, morality, and the nature of human relationships.
Self-help — It provides guidance on cultivating meaningful friendships and personal growth through relationships.
Poetry — The work employs poetic language and structure to convey its themes.
Ethical — It discusses ethical considerations in friendships and the importance of virtue.