
The work emphasizes the importance of moral integrity and the consequences of desiring another man's wife. It begins by highlighting the distinction between those who pursue righteousness and wealth versus those who succumb to base desires. The text asserts that the greatest folly lies in coveting a neighbor's spouse, equating such actions with a descent into moral decay. The narrative warns against the dangers of invading the sanctity of a friend's home, portraying it as a path leading to destruction. It underscores that no amount of personal greatness can redeem a man who engages in adultery, as the shame associated with such acts is profound and lasting. The text condemns the man who is drawn to another's wife merely due to her availability, marking him as forever tainted. The consequences of adultery are depicted as relentless, encompassing hatred, sin, fear, and shame. In contrast, the righteous individual is portrayed as one who remains unaffected by the allure of another's spouse, achieving a higher moral standing. The work extols the virtues of self-control and respect for others' relationships, suggesting that true worth is found in those who do not covet what belongs to others. Ultimately, the text conveys that even if one were to commit various sins, refraining from desiring a neighbor's wife is a significant moral achievement. It serves as a cautionary tale, advocating for fidelity and respect in relationships, and reinforcing the idea that true virtue lies in the ability to resist temptation.
By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2000 · Genre: Moral Philosophy, Didactic Literature, Poetry · 223 words
Behold the men whose eyes are turned towards righteousness and towards wealth: they commit not the folly of desiring another man's wife.
Among those that have fallen from virtue there is no greater fool than he that standeth at his neighbour's threshold.
Verily they are in the jaws of death who invade the home of an unsuspecting friend.
Let a man be ever so great: what availeth it all if he committeth adultery without thinking ever so little of the shame that floweth therefrom?
Non-Desiring of Another Man's Wife is listed on Textopian as an essay by Thiruvalluvar, dated 2000 CE.
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