Testing of Fitness for Friendship

Name: Testing of Fitness for Friendship
Author: Thiruvalluvar

The work emphasizes the importance of discerning the true nature of potential friends before forming bonds. It warns against the dangers of hastily entering friendships without thorough evaluation, as such decisions can lead to significant personal harm. The text advocates for a careful assessment of a person's background, character, and social connections to determine their worthiness as a friend. It highlights the value of associating with individuals from reputable families who possess a strong sense of honor. Such friendships are deemed beneficial, even if they require effort or sacrifice to establish. The work encourages seeking out wise individuals who can provide constructive criticism and guidance, reinforcing the idea that true friends help one grow and improve. Misfortune is portrayed as a revealing force, allowing one to identify genuine friends versus those who are merely fair-weather companions. The text advises against maintaining relationships with those who are unreliable or who abandon friends in times of need, as such associations can lead to emotional pain and regret. Ultimately, the work advocates for cultivating friendships with virtuous individuals while discarding connections with the unworthy, emphasizing that the quality of friendships significantly impacts one's life and well-being.

By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2000 · Genre: Philosophical, Self-help, Ethical · 276 words

First lines

There is no greater ill than making a friend without first testing him: for, once a friendship is formed, there is no giving it up for the man of heart.

Behold the man that maketh men his friends without previously testing them: he courteth disasters which will only end in his death.

Take into thy consideration the family of the man whom thou desirest to make thy friend, his virtues and his vices, and the whole range of his associates and connections: and then befriend him if he is worthy.

Behold the man who is born of a good family and who dreadeth disgrace: one ought to acquire his friendship even by paying a price for it if necessary.

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Work type: Essay
Author: Thiruvalluvar
Date: 2000 CE
Language: English
Genres: Philosophical, Self-help, Ethical, Didactic, Literary
Length: 276 words
Structure: 1 section, 10 paragraphs
Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)

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Philosophical — The text explores deep themes of friendship, virtue, and moral character, reflecting on the nature of human relationships.
Self-help — It provides practical advice on choosing friends wisely and understanding the implications of friendship.
Ethical — The work emphasizes ethical considerations in forming friendships and the importance of virtue.
Didactic — The text serves an educational purpose, teaching readers about the qualities of worthy friends.