
The poem explores the complex relationship between love and self-awareness. The speaker acknowledges the inevitability of love's arrival, recognizing both its beauty and its burdens. There is a sense of resignation as the speaker reflects on the pain and humiliation that love can bring, likening it to a bitter crust that is thrust upon them. The speaker grapples with the public nature of their suffering, as love's proclamation is loud and unavoidable, yet they assert that the consequences of their feelings are ultimately their own responsibility. The poem conveys a tension between desire and acceptance, highlighting the speaker's internal conflict and the societal perceptions of love and suffering. The conclusion emphasizes a sense of autonomy, suggesting that despite external judgments, the speaker's emotional experience is personal and self-contained.
By Edna St. Vincent Millay · First published 1923 · Genre: Poetry, Romanticism, Modernism · 150 words
That Love at length should find me out and bring
This fierce and trivial brow unto the dust, Is, after all, I must confess, but just; There is a subtle beauty in this thing, A wry perfection; wherefore now let sing
All voices how into my throat is thrust, Unwelcome as Death's own, Love's bitter crust, All criers proclaim it, and all steeples ring. This being done, there let the matter rest. What more remains is neither here nor there.
That you requite me not is plain to see; Myself your slave herein have I confessed:
That Love at Length should Find Me is listed on Textopian as a poem by Edna St. Vincent Millay, dated 1923 CE.
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Poetry · Romance · Love · Longing · Heartbreak · Sorrow · Melancholy · Yearning · Desire · Passion · Intimacy · Relationships