Negative Love by John Donne (1633)
The speaker declares that his love does not rest on physical attractions such as an eye, cheek, or lip, nor even chiefly on virtue or the mind. Unlike those whose desire can be understood by the senses or reason, he does not know what object or quality would satisfy his love. He considers this uncertainty a bolder form of love: because he does not know what he seeks, he cannot truly fail by missing it. He then compares his love to something perfectly expressed only through negatives. He denies loving all the things that others commonly love and describes his desired object as “nothing,” something beyond his own knowledge. Until someone can explain that unknown nothing to him, he takes comfort in the belief that, even if his love does not prosper, it cannot miss its aim.
By John Donne · First published 1633 · Genre: Metaphysical Poetry, Love Poetry, Philosophical Poetry · 197 words
First lines
I never stoop'd so low, as they / Which on an eye, cheek, lip, can prey; / Seldom to them which soar no higher / Than virtue, or the mind to admire. / For sense and understanding may / Know what gives fuel to their fire; / My love, though silly, is more brave; / For may I miss, whene'er I crave, / If I know yet what I would have.
If that be simply perfectest, / Which can by no way be express'd / But negatives, my love is so. / To all, which all love, I say no. / If any who deciphers best, / What we know not-ourselves-can know, / Let him teach me that nothing. This / As yet my ease and comfort is, / Though I speed not, I cannot miss.
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- Work type: Poem
- Author: John Donne
- Date: 1633 CE
- Language: English
- Genres: Metaphysical Poetry, Love Poetry, Philosophical Poetry, Lyric Poetry, Paradoxical Literature
- Length: 197 words
- Structure: 1 section, 2 paragraphs
- Reading fit: Easy (6th Grade)
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Genres
- Metaphysical Poetry — Donne is a central figure of metaphysical poetry; the poem uses paradox, philosophical argument, complex conceits, and intellectual abstraction to explore the nature of love, exemplifying the movement's characteristic method and concerns.
- Love Poetry — The poem is fundamentally about love, though it defines and explores love paradoxically and negatively rather than through conventional romantic expression.
- Philosophical Poetry — The entire work is structured as a philosophical argument, exploring the nature of love through logical negation, abstract reasoning about essence and expression, and epistemological inquiry.
- Lyric Poetry — Written in first person with introspective, personal expression of the speaker's internal state and emotional/intellectual experience of love, characteristic of lyric form.
Tags
metaphysical poetry · paradox · love · absence · rejection · wit · irony · loss · melancholy · passion · contradiction · conceits