Song of Contrariety

Song of Contrariety by Robert Graves

The work explores themes of love, desire, and the paradox of emotional connection. It juxtaposes the tangible and intangible aspects of love, illustrating how proximity can feel distant and how longing can manifest in dreams yet dissipate in reality. The speaker reflects on the fleeting nature of passion, suggesting that while love may appear to be within reach, it often eludes permanence. The poem delves into the tension between dreams and waking life, highlighting the disillusionment that accompanies the realization that love cannot be commanded or sustained through mere desire. The imagery evokes a sense of melancholy, as the speaker grapples with the emptiness that follows the initial thrill of romantic connection. The contrast between the idealized vision of love and its often disappointing reality is a central motif. As the speaker contemplates the essence of love, questions arise about its true nature—whether it is a substantial force or merely an illusion. The work captures the bittersweet experience of longing, where the presence of love feels both tangible and ephemeral. Ultimately, it reflects on the loneliness that can accompany the pursuit of love, especially when the initial fervor fades, leaving behind a sense of isolation on what should be a joyous occasion. The exploration of these themes is rich with emotional depth, inviting readers to reflect on their own experiences with love and the complexities that accompany it. The interplay of hope and despair serves as a poignant reminder of the duality inherent in human relationships, where joy and sorrow often coexist. The work resonates with anyone who has experienced the transient nature of affection and the inevitable return to solitude.

By Robert Graves · First published 1955 · Genre: Poetry, Romanticism, Lyric · 139 words

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Far away is close at hand, Close joined is far away, Love might come at your command Yet will not stay.

At summons of your dream-despair She could not disobey, But slid close down beside you there And complaisant lay.

Yet now her flesh and blood consent In waking hours of day, Joy and passion both are spent, Fading clean away.

Is the presence empty air, Is the spectre clay, That Love, lent substance by despair, Wanes, and leaves you lonely there On the bridal day?

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poetry · love · despair · longing · existentialism · romanticism · nature · transience · illusion · human emotion · relationships · loss

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