Intimacy by Thiruvalluvar (2004)

Name: Intimacy
Author: Thiruvalluvar

The work explores the essence of true friendship and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of unconditional acceptance and understanding between friends. It defines intimacy as a bond where one submits to the quirks and freedoms of the beloved without resentment. The text argues that genuine friendship thrives on familiarity and ease, suggesting that a true friend does not take offense at the liberties taken by another. It posits that longstanding friendships are meaningless if they do not embrace the imperfections and liberties inherent in close relationships. When friends act without seeking permission, the warm-hearted will interpret such actions through the lens of love, recognizing the intent behind them. The work encourages viewing any pain caused by a friend as a reflection of their deep connection rather than mere ignorance. The narrative highlights the unwavering loyalty of a perfect friend, who remains steadfast even in the face of personal ruin caused by the other. It illustrates the depth of affection that transcends harm, showcasing individuals who continue to cherish their friends despite the challenges faced. The text also notes that true friends dismiss any negative remarks about each other, celebrating their bond even when faced with adversity. The portrayal of love in friendship is profound, suggesting that those who love deeply and consistently will be valued by the world. The work concludes with the idea that steadfast affection for old friends earns respect, even from adversaries, underscoring the enduring nature of true intimacy and loyalty in relationships.

By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2004 · Genre: Philosophical, Self-help, Poetry · 246 words

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That friendship is called intimacy which submitteth without resenting to all the freedoms taken by the beloved one.

To be free and easy with each other, that is the heart of true friendship: and it is the part of worthy men never to resent such familiarities.

Of what avail is friendship that is longstanding if it acquiesceth not in the liberties taken in its name?

When friends rely on their intimacy and do a thing without leave, the warmhearted will think of their love and will take it in good part.

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Work type: Essay
Author: Thiruvalluvar
Date: 2004 CE
Language: English
Genres: Philosophical, Self-help, Poetry, Spiritual, Classic Literature
Length: 246 words
Structure: 1 section, 10 paragraphs
Reading fit: Fairly Easy (7th Grade)

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Philosophical — The text explores deep themes of friendship, loyalty, and the nature of intimacy, characteristic of philosophical literature.
Self-help — The work provides insights into maintaining and understanding relationships, aligning with self-help literature.
Poetry — The writing style is lyrical and reflective, typical of poetic expression.
Spiritual — The themes of love and enduring friendship resonate with spiritual and moral teachings.