Family Work

Family Work by Wendell Berry (2019)

Wendell Berry argues that raising food and children at home is both a demanding ideal and an enduring necessity. Home-grown and home-cooked food can improve health while giving every family member meaningful work, strengthening affection, loyalty, cooperation, and shared responsibility. What was once sustained by necessity and tradition has become harder because modern economic and public values draw attention away from home. Automobiles, cheap fuel, television, advertising, and long school days separate people from household life. Television especially teaches children to prefer buying to making, consuming to producing, and going elsewhere to remaining at home. It presents happiness as something purchased and locates value outside one’s own place. Public education, though valuable in principle, often keeps children away from home for so many hours that it becomes a kind of incarceration. Schooling without substantial home education leaves young people unfamiliar with books, essential work, and the practical disciplines of life. Berry proposes that households resist this pressure by abandoning television and becoming centers of attention and interest. The silence left by turning off the television can permit a family’s own life and place to emerge. Every home, whether rural or urban, has possibilities for work, pleasure, rest, solitude, and companionship. Gardens, kitchens, libraries, workrooms, parks, vacant lots, neighborhood streets, window boxes, and even an open window can connect people to the air, light, weather, and usefulness of their own place. Such local productivity restores a sense of home that consumption cannot provide. Parents should recognize this productivity as a gift to children, though children will not always welcome it. Children may prefer cokes and hot dogs to home-raised food, seek television elsewhere, resent chores, and feel embarrassed by old-fashioned household standards. They are influenced not only by parents but also by schools, friends, and other families. Parenthood therefore requires accepting uncertainty: children must be risked to the world, and raising them is both a privilege and a trial. Parents may fear failure when children reject their efforts, but Berry insists that the true failure is surrender. A household should offer healthy nourishment, moral distinctions, restraint, useful skills, discipline, and work, even without assurance that children will value these things while young. Such upbringing gives them a real choice that they may understand and choose intelligently as adults.

By Wendell Berry · First published 2019 · Genre: Essay, Creative Nonfiction, Social Criticism · 1,905 words

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FOR THOSE of us who have wished to raise our food and our children at home, it is easy enough to state the ideal. Growing our own food, unlike buying it, is a complex activity, and it affects deeply the shape and value of our lives. We like the thought that the outdoor work that improves our health should produce food of excellent quality that, in turn, also improves and safeguards our health. We like no less the thought that the home production of food can improve the quality of family life. Not only do we intend to give our children better food than we can buy for them at the store, or than they will buy for themselves from vending machines or burger joints, we also know that growing and preparing food at home can provide family work-work for everybody. And by thus elaborating household chores and obligations, we hope to strengthen the bonds of interest, loyalty, affection, and cooperation that keep families together.

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essays · rural life · family · agriculture · community · work · homesteading · environmentalism · localism · craftsmanship · sustainability · traditional values

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