Comporting Oneself before Princes

Comporting Oneself before Princes

The work provides guidance on how to conduct oneself in the presence of rulers and influential figures. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining a respectful distance, akin to warming oneself by a fire, to avoid overstepping boundaries. To gain and retain favor, one must not covet the desires of the prince, as this can lead to disgrace. The text advises against whispering or engaging in secretive behavior in the presence of authority, highlighting the importance of transparency and honesty. It stresses the need to be attuned to the prince's mood and the context of the moment, ensuring that one's words are both pleasing and appropriate. It cautions against speaking unprofitable truths, even if prompted, and underscores the necessity of treating the prince with the respect due to his position, regardless of personal connections. The work warns that those who take their relationship with the prince for granted and act unworthily will ultimately face dire consequences. Overall, the text serves as a manual for navigating the complexities of courtly life, advocating for a blend of respect, discretion, and strategic communication to thrive in the presence of power.

By Thiruvalluvar · First published 2000 · Genre: Philosophy, Political Literature, Self-Help · 268 words

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Whoever desireth to move with princes, let him be like unto the men that warm themselves at a fire: let him not approach too near nor stand too far away.

Not to itch for those things that the prince desireth: that is the secret of acquiring his lasting favour and thereby growing in affluence.

If thou desire not to fall into disgrace steer clear of all graver failings: for once suspicion is roused, it is impossible for anyone to remove it.

Speak not in whispers in the presence of the great ones: nor smile to another's face when they are near.

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Philosophy · Ethics · Morality · Conduct · Behavior · Etiquette · Manners · Social Norms · Cultural Values · Tamil Literature · Ancient Wisdom · Spiritual Guidance

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