At the Altar-Rail

At the Altar-Rail by Thomas Hardy

The narrative unfolds with a groom anxiously awaiting his bride at the altar, only to receive a telegram indicating her absence. He reflects on their brief courtship, which began at a dance and quickly escalated to a proposal. The groom expresses regret over his decision to abandon the vibrant life of the city for the quieter existence of a farmer, believing he has misjudged his bride's true nature. As he grapples with his disappointment, the groom recalls the bride's initial enthusiasm and their shared dreams. However, her message reveals a stark contrast between their expectations. She values a life filled with excitement and freedom, suggesting that her true self is far removed from the domesticity he envisioned. The groom's realization of her discontent leads to a deeper understanding of their incompatibility. The poem explores themes of love, disillusionment, and the clash between romantic ideals and reality. The groom's internal conflict highlights the tension between societal expectations and personal desires. Ultimately, the work captures the poignant moment of unfulfilled dreams and the painful recognition of a relationship built on miscommunication and differing aspirations. The groom's lament serves as a reflection on the complexities of love and the often harsh truths that accompany it.

By Thomas Hardy · First published 1894 · Genre: Poetry, Romantic Fiction, Drama · 187 words

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"MY bride is not coming, alas! " says the groom, And the telegram shakes in his hand. "I own It was hurried! We met at a dancing-room When I went to the Cattle-Show alone, And then, next night, where the Fountain leaps, And the Street of the Quarter-Circle sweeps.

"Ay, she won me to ask her to be my wife- 'Twas foolish perhaps! -to forsake the ways Of the flaring town for a farmer's life. She agreed. And we fixed it. Now she says: ‘_It's sweet of you_, _dear_, _to prepare me a nest_, _But a swift_, _short_, _gay life suits me best_. _What I really am you have never gleaned_; _I had eaten the apple ere you were weaned_. "

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