I Said to Love

I Said to Love by Thomas Hardy

The poem presents a dialogue with Love, personified as a powerful yet harsh entity. The speaker reflects on the changing perception of Love over time, contrasting past adoration with a more cynical understanding. Initially, Love is depicted as a revered figure, embodying beauty and joy, but the speaker asserts that this idealization has faded. As the speaker addresses Love, they express a newfound awareness of its true nature, recognizing the pain and suffering often associated with love. The speaker critiques the romanticized notions of love, suggesting that humanity's previous eagerness to embrace love's trials was rooted in naivety. The tone shifts as the speaker confronts Love directly, declaring it neither youthful nor beautiful, but rather a source of distress and anguish. The imagery used conveys a sense of betrayal, as the speaker acknowledges the harsh realities that accompany love, such as heartache and despair. Ultimately, the speaker challenges Love's power, suggesting that humanity has grown weary and indifferent to its influence. The declaration that mankind may cease to exist without Love is met with a sense of resignation, indicating a loss of hope and a willingness to accept the end of emotional connection. The poem encapsulates a profound disillusionment with love, portraying it as a force that, while once cherished, is now viewed with skepticism and disdain.

By Thomas Hardy · First published 1912 · Genre: Poetry, Romanticism, Philosophical · 279 words

First lines

I SAID to Love, / "It is not now as in old days / When men adored thee and thy ways / All else above; / Named thee the Boy, the Bright, the One / Who spread a heaven beneath the sun," / I said to Love.

I said to him, / "We now know more of thee than then; / We were but weak in judgment when, / With hearts abrim, / We clamoured thee that thou would'st please / Inflict on us thine agonies," / I said to him.

I said to Love, / "Thou art not young, thou art not fair, / No faery darts, no cherub air, / Nor swan, nor dove / Are thine; but features pitiless, / And iron daggers of distress," / I said to Love.

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love · romance · heartbreak · relationships · poetry · emotion · longing · despair · nature · human experience · loss · yearning

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